Telegraph death announcement in 2007: Brigadier James Duncuft Fettes ALEXANDER Aged 76 suddenly whilst on holiday in Spain. Loving husband of Daphne, adored father of Nick and Lulu. Grandfather/Papa Sing Song of Lucia, Millie, Imo and Nico. Funeral 12 noon Monday 3rd September, St Johns, Tisbury, Wilts. Donations to A.B.F. c/o Chris White, 12 South Street, Wilton. SP2 0JS. Telephone 01722 744691